Battered husbands suffer in silence
There are thousands of husbands in India like Gaurav who got physical, emotional, mental and financial abuse by their cruel and unscrupulous wives. My wife also filed a false 498A case at Jaipur against me and my parents, telling that I went to her house with 2 goons for threatening and demanding Rs. 10 lacs of dowry. But fortunately I have train tickets and other evidences to show that I was on the way from Jaipur to Mumbai for attending the CII seminar at Taj Mahal Hotel. I have video recording of “Kuch Diiil Se” program of Smriti Irani where my wife said 'Nishant ek kamyab pati hai' that Nishant is a successful husband, but in her FIR, she wrote all the false stories based on dowry harassment, stating that I harassed her from the day one of our marriage.
It is unfortunate that such cruel wives play with sympathies of public, police and court for their support and misuse draconian laws which were made for protection of women. Due to widespread corruption and low morale values, the whole system surrenders to the desires of a vindictive and hostile woman to harass her husband and in-laws. Now it’s the turn of battered husbands in India who need solace, as there is no one for them.
Usually it is a laughing stuff as such stories find their place in the ‘Masala’ news section of newspapers. It’s the society’s psychology at play, a man who is supposed to be physically stronger and a natural caretaker for a woman is bound to become a laughing stuff when he would reveal his most personal secrets of being beaten up by a woman. Due to this reason, such men are reluctant to come out in public to uncover their scars, although they would rather prefer to keep suffering alone in the silence. The media, society and the government should seriously consider such victimized men.
But society is still unaware of it at large and not ready to provide the support to the victimized husbands, as they still ignore men’s concerns and consider them as being chauvinistic, against the rising power of women in society and as a crying wolf on loosing their privileges as a man. The said perception is due to the groundwork of feminists and thousands of women organizations who have been manipulating the concerns of harassed husbands and propagating the biased opinions and views that are actually anti-man. Their lopsided policies have started disintegrating the social system in India which is used to be the India’s core strength. The women organizations have largely manipulated the data and falsely represented it so attract media and public attention to their biased views. They are unable to provide corrective measures to the problems of harassed husbands and their family members who are falsely implicated under the Dowry Laws (Section 498A).
It is unfortunate that such cruel wives play with sympathies of public, police and court for their support and misuse draconian laws which were made for protection of women. Due to widespread corruption and low morale values, the whole system surrenders to the desires of a vindictive and hostile woman to harass her husband and in-laws. Now it’s the turn of battered husbands in India who need solace, as there is no one for them.
Usually it is a laughing stuff as such stories find their place in the ‘Masala’ news section of newspapers. It’s the society’s psychology at play, a man who is supposed to be physically stronger and a natural caretaker for a woman is bound to become a laughing stuff when he would reveal his most personal secrets of being beaten up by a woman. Due to this reason, such men are reluctant to come out in public to uncover their scars, although they would rather prefer to keep suffering alone in the silence. The media, society and the government should seriously consider such victimized men.
But society is still unaware of it at large and not ready to provide the support to the victimized husbands, as they still ignore men’s concerns and consider them as being chauvinistic, against the rising power of women in society and as a crying wolf on loosing their privileges as a man. The said perception is due to the groundwork of feminists and thousands of women organizations who have been manipulating the concerns of harassed husbands and propagating the biased opinions and views that are actually anti-man. Their lopsided policies have started disintegrating the social system in India which is used to be the India’s core strength. The women organizations have largely manipulated the data and falsely represented it so attract media and public attention to their biased views. They are unable to provide corrective measures to the problems of harassed husbands and their family members who are falsely implicated under the Dowry Laws (Section 498A).
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